Overcoming The Fear of Being Fabulous
With Judith & Jim


Overcoming the Fear of Being Fabulous

For the Fabulous Life You Always Wanted

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Overcoming the Fear of Being Fabulous podcasts are weekly bite-sized 7-10-minute episodes devoted to helping you move past internal (often unconscious) barriers, or what hosts Judith & Jim call allegiances and holdbacks.

Our podcasts are devoted to helping you expand your life, in whatever ways you want or need, and that’s why we feature such wide ranging topics.

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Ep.112 ~ How Well Do You Manage Up and Influence Others?

Managing up! Ever hear of it? Never heard of it?

It’s important that you don’t allow yourself to just be obedient whether it’s with your boss, your spouse, whoever! In order to grow in your self-appraisal, today Judith & Jim will help you learn to better manage up!

It’s important that you feel comfortable influencing others, perhaps in your relationship with your child’s teacher, or with your next door neighbor, or your friendship circle. 

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Ep.111 ~ There Is No Such Thing As Failure

Happy New Year

Now get ready for J & J to help you think about “Failure” very, very differently!

Judith & Jim have a big announcement for you! Perhaps even a giant wake-up call! THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS FAILURE. Yes, you heard that right.

Today Judith & Jim will help you dig into this provocative guarantee. You’ll be surprised at what you discover. To get ready for this podcast, bring to mind an area in your life where you are not living up to what you would prefer. It might be in your career, your love life, physical fitness, spirituality, you name it.

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Ep.110 ~ Are You Allowed to Outshine Your Parents and Siblings?

Many people are held back by worry that if they succeed according to their own desires and ambitions they will feel guilty. But – guilty of what? Guilty for outshining everyone else in their family. Guilty for going after things their family may not approve of. Guilty. What about you? What have you felt guilty about?

What do you feel guilty about right now? Moving away from your family’s long time city or town? Dating or marrying outside your family’s race, religion, or any other approved of category? Making more money than anyone in your family ever even thought about? Succeeding in a career your family thinks is corrupt or even evil? There are plenty of other categories of course.

So today Judith & Jim ask and explore with you this key question – “Are you allowed to outshine your parents and/or siblings?

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Ep.109 ~ Unconscious Contamination

Ever thought about how areas of your life can actually be contaminated — polluted by experiences and emotional associations in your early life?

In today’s episode Judith & Jim will help you dig into this as it applies to your life, your much larger life and your current fear of being fabulous. So  please give some thought to how early upbringing can twist how people think about other people’s race, religion, and other cultures. Think about how kids learn to make fun of other kids, to bully and badger them. They weren’t born that way. They learned it. And they think it’s okay. Those are the results of contamination!

Discover more about this with J & J today!

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Ep.108 ~ Where In Your Life Is Your Unconscious Holding You Back?

3 Big Questions for You

Today Judith & Jim have 3 big questions for you! Because they want you to better understand  “Where in your life is your Unconscious holding you back?” They are following up on the topic of Unconscious Allegiances and  Forbiddances, and will be helping you examine the difference between those areas in your life where you are doing really well – maybe even amazing – and those where you feel like the mysteries of the universe have you trapped and you can’t get out!



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Ep.107~Our Own Hold-Backs Part 2~Jim’s Fear of Being Fabulous

Today it’s Jim’s turn to share some of his stories that demonstrate where his Fear of Being Fabulous originated.

When you listen to Jim describe a bit of his background and the early roots of his Fear Of Being Fabulous, see what comes to mind from your own early experiences where you thought you had to be humble and modest, playing down your own excellence and expertise. That playing down is what J & J call “hold-backs” which are most often

And that’s what “The Double Js” are dedicated to helping you discover.


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Ep.106 ~ Our Own Hold-Backs~Part 1~Judith’s Fears of Being Fabulous

Today’s episode is about Judith’s Fear Of Being Fabulous

Judith & Jim’s expertise in helping people with Overcoming The Fear Of Being Fabulous didn’t just come from working with clients in their private practice over many year and now coaching tech industry executives. It started with their own personal challenges.

Today you’ll gain insight into a bit of Judith’s background and

–  so you can hopefully relate them to your own life.

Next week it’s Jim’s turn to share some stories about his holdbacks.

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Ep.105 ~ Understanding The Terms We Use

It’s NOT psycho-jargon

It’s important to understand the specific terms Judith & Jim use to describe how The Fear Of Being Fabulous is created, how it’s maintained, and what’s involved in order for you to actually Overcome The Fear Of Being Fabulous.

This isn’t some kind of psycho-jargon. J & J’s specific terms emerged through the process of coaching and teaching people about The Fear Of Being Fabulous, and continually exploring their own experiences with it as well.

In this episode you’ll find out what “Allegiances” and Forbiddances” are all about. And you’ll also

  Get ready to compare your own experiences with what The Double Js will be sharing with you.

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Ep.104 ~ The Power of the Unconscious

Who are you really? And what is not the REAL you?

Many people associate the unconscious with forbidden feelings. Perhaps sexual, perhaps rageful, or anything else that’s considered forbidden. But we prefer to look at what went into your mind to help create The Fear Of Being Fabulous before you were old enough to evaluate what is actually true for you – who you really are – and what is not the real you.

That’s why J & J devote this podcast to helping you explore the power of the unconscious and how it can be controlling you without your awareness or understanding.

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Ep.103 ~ Signs and Signals of The Fear of Being Fabulous

Are you a chronic procrastinator?

Do you worry about The Imposter Syndrome? Refrain from speaking up at meetings or with friends for fear you’ll be seen as a bossy, imposing know-it-all? Do you struggle with anxiety and/or depression? Are you a chronic procrastinator? Perhaps you cater to old values you learned in childhood and don’t even recognize what it’s costing you.

These are just a small sampling of what you’ll discover about the Signs and Signals of ways that people suffer from the Fear of Being Fabulous—and how it may be holding you back from a much larger, happier life.Click on the Cover to get Your Copy Now from Amazon

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